Summer Fragments


Supper on the back deck ‘most every evening.


Relaxing in the back yard during my lunch break with this cutie.


Hours of work and effort on a hot Saturday putting on a garage sale. So not worth the money we made. But nice to have all that clutter cleared out. Next time I think we’ll just go straight to the thrift store.


Summer evening storms.


Morning quiet time.

{Linking up with Friday Fragments, Friendship Friday, Five on Friday, Awesome Life Friday, and High Five Friday.}


After Dark


Summer is such a fun time for relaxed outdoor learning. Warm summer evenings are a great opportunity to learn about astronomy, especially since you don’t have to worry about “school night” bedtimes.

Something my family looks forward to in August is the Perseid Meteor Shower event. Do you know about that? From mid-July to mid-August, we enjoy looking for “falling stars.” Of course, the showers are best seen if you can get way out in the country away from the city lights.

One August, late in the evening after it got dark, we grabbed blankets and pillows and piled into the pick-up and headed out for a dark country road. Once we reached a safe place to pull over, with no man-made lights in sight, we spread our blankets in the back of the truck and laid on our backs looking up at the stars. It took a few minutes for our eyes to adjust to the deep darkness, but then out of the corner of my eye, I saw a flash across the sky. “There’s one!” I pointed. Of course, by the time the others looked, it was gone. But then someone else saw one. We realized it wasn’t possible to point them out to each other, but by keeping our eyes on the sky, it really did seem to be a shower of falling stars. That was a fun family memory.

Other times we’ve stayed up to watch a lunar eclipse. There’s one coming up September 28 this year. Of course, it will depend on where you are… and the weather! …as to whether or not you’ll be able to see it.

Even when there’s “nothing special” going on in the sky, we still enjoy looking at the stars, picking out constellations, and noticing the appearance of some of the planets at various times.

I’m actually not all that knowledgeable about the skies, but we have read several books on the subject over the years and I love the Google Sky Map app on my phone. It identifies stars, planets, and even satellites. Occasionally I’ll notice an extra bright star that isn’t usually there, so I click on the app, hold the phone up towards the sky, and find out that it’s Mars… or one of the other planets. Not that I can do anything about it. I just like knowing.

The heavens declare the glory of God;
And the firmament shows His handiwork.
Day unto day utters speech,
And night unto night reveals knowledge.
Psalm 19:1-2

Have you ever taken your kids out at night just to look at the sky? I’d love to hear about it!

{Linking with Titus 2sday and Mom’s Library}


Traveling with Kids


Learning is a lifestyle in our family… and the learning doesn’t stop even on vacation.

Some of our best memories as a family involve cross-country road trips. It surprises me a little when I see people wince or shudder at the idea of traveling with their children. I’ve always looked forward to it. I enjoy planning travel games and activities and treats, and now that my children are older they look forward to long road trips just as much as Lyle and I do.

I am somewhat of a history buff, and over the years that has “somehow” rubbed off on my family. As we drive along, if we have time, Lyle knows I always want to pull off and read the historical markers to know what happened on this site. Before a trip, I will scout out the road atlas for historical places, and then research to see if it looks like there might be some interesting museums, visitor’s centers, or state parks along the way. We’ve hit a few duds, but typically these types of places aren’t very expensive (often free) so we just go on our way. Usually, though, we find the stops very interesting, educational, and yes… fun! We try to plan in time for “scenic detours” like this when have a long road trip to visit relatives or another destination. It breaks the trip up, creates memories, and is not very expensive at all.

I expect the most popular idea for traveling with kids is a portable DVD player or other device for playing movies. And that’s great for occasional use. However, my children never have done well with endless hours of screen time, so I try to plan for other activities to interest them as we drive along.

When the girls were babies and toddlers (from about 6 months to 2 years), I took along a bag full of baby toys. A mesh laundry bag meant for washing delicates with a zipper closure works great, because you can see through it, and the zipper keeps everything from spilling out. I collected plastic “busy” toys meant for babies at the dollar store and thrift stores. (Of course I sterilized those I bought second-hand.) As we traveled I would hand Baby one toy at a time. When she got tired of it and dropped it, I would hand her another one. I probably had 20 or 30 to cycle through. This worked really well to keep her interested in between naps and snacks.

As the kids got a little older I was able to expand the selection of activities. Preschoolers enjoy lively children’s music and recorded picture books to listen to, but they also enjoy something to do with their hands. I usually kept some of their toys put up just for traveling so they would be “new” and fresh. I also took along things like colorful pipe cleaners to bend and twist, stickers and paper to stick them on– even a roll of scotch tape can be a lot of fun for a little one.

We made it a habit to stop at fast food places with playgrounds and kids’ meals along the way. Lyle and I would order our food and eat while the children played on the playground. We saved their meal for them to eat when we got back on the road. This gave them maximum time for running off some energy, and also gave them something to do (eat!) as we drove along. They were also always very interested in the toy that came with the meal. For traveling, it was worth the extra cost of a kids’ meal to get that little toy. If the restaurant had more than one to choose from I would try to get different toys for each child so they could trade off later.

Once the girls reached school age, planning for trips was a lot easier. I liked to choose a special magazine and a puzzle book for each of them before we left, to give them in the car, and sometimes a fun pen or a new set of markers. I also encouraged them to pack a tote bag with a book of their choice and things they might want to do as we travel. They take along their digital devices to listen to audio books.

On some trips they like to keep journals of where we went and what we saw. For some of our longer trips, I made up “trip journals” for the kids before we left by printing out worksheets found online about the states we would be visiting. These are fun for them to work on in the car as we travel through each state.

We enjoy traditional travel games looking out the car windows, too– the alphabet game, watching for different states on license plates, counting how many travel trailers we see, and so on. A simple travel bingo game that I made up has been a huge hit. I just made a check-list of things we might see along the way– from various types of vehicles and buildings to common fast food restaurants and animals. They loved watching for things on their list. As soon as they completed one list, they would beg me to make them another one.

As our children have grown up we have discovered that we often have some of our best conversations as a family in the car. Traveling together has helped strengthen our relationship with our kids and created life-long memories.

Oh, yes. We do eventually get to where we’re going. But you know the old saying, “Getting there is half the fun!”

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